Davina Faluyi

The Weight Of Being Unchosen

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For as long as she could remember, her father had been the safest place she knew. His love was constant, warm, and unquestionable—until the day life changed. After losing his job, he never stopped being a provider. The school fees were paid, the necessities were covered, and his responsibilities remained intact. Yet somewhere beneath the weight of disappointment and survival, the affection she had once known quietly disappeared.Carrying the invisible weight of emotional absence, she spends her teenage years longing to feel chosen again. She searches for in others what she lost at home, believing that if someone loved her deeply enough, the emptiness would finally disappear. But every relationship leaves her standing in the shadow of someone else, constantly wondering why she is never the one who is fully chosen.As the lines between love, validation, and self-worth begin to blur, she must confront the painful question she has spent years avoiding: Is she truly unworthy of love, or has she simply been searching for it in the wrong places?The Weight of Being Unchosen is a poignant coming-of-age novel about emotional neglect, father-daughter relationships, heartbreak, and the quiet journey toward discovering that the love we spend our lives chasing often begins with learning to choose ourselves.

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